Anonymous: He's now my ex but I still love him. I want to have closure but he doesn't want to talk to me. I can't understand him. He's now dating another girl so that does mean that he's over me right? Why he refuses to talk to me? :( help me. i don't know what to do.

you aren’t going to get over someone by constantly exposing yourself to him. he’s meeting new people, living his life, just as you should and if you follow his lead, you’ll see that you can be happy as he is

Anonymous: how do I get over someone when it's been months since we said a word to each other? we said we would wait till we were both ready to be together again and knowing that there's still that promise is what's making it harder to forget. I know it's not going to happen, but I can't seem to let go without closure.

talking, aka OPENING things up again with that person isn’t going to get you CLOSURE. closure is something you achieve yourself!

Anonymous: I like this one guy but I hardly know him how do I start a conversation without being all creepy and awkward like

everyone starts off as strangers. keep that in mind. it doesn’t hurt to smile or say hi to him. simple things like that can start it off between you two.

Anonymous: So I just got out of a 3 year relationship about 7 weeks ago. And I stopped thinking about her. I never thought I could say this, but, I made it! Now I have a date with a girl who I had a major crush on in freshman year of high school. I lost a couple pounds. I could now focus on my 2nd year of college. I just needed to get this off my chest. I'm so damn happy she left me for another guy.


Anonymous: So my ex and I broke up and we haven't stopped talking but it's been a couple of months now that we broke up and he's talking to this girl. I'm really confuse on why he is still talking to me. He says I'm his best friend and he never wants to lose me but on the other hand he ignores me at times . I'm trying to move on and still am. what should I do?

stop talking to him. it’s hard to have both because he has another girl that he is investing his time in and in order to get over him, youre gonna have to cut the cord and let him do him for awhile

Anonymous: Me and my boyfriend are celebrating our anniversary in a couple of weeks, but I'm still having these thoughts that he's with somebody else.. Because a month or two ago, he was talking to his ex because he didnt know what he wanted at the time. Should I continue to stay with him and finally forgive him for doing that behind my back.. Or what?

0_0 wtf if my boyfriend did that i wouldn’t even be with him

if he’s unsure, then fuck him. he better know what he wants and if its not you, kick him to the curb